Showing posts with label Living Simply. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Living Simply. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 28, 2017

The One with Our 2017 So Far...

Hi guys!!

A little while back I did a poll on my Twitter about blogging....





I giggled at the results because I personally think that the blogging world
is special to bloggers.
Just like Twitter is special to Tweeters and Instagram is special 
to Instagrammers etc. etc.

The reason I don't blog very much is because it takes me FOREVER to do a post.  Getting my thoughts together, writing it out, rewriting it where I think it may make more sense, finding pictures, editing the pictures.... and I'm just slow.

But I love blogging, the blogging world and the friends that 
I have made through blogging.
So I wanted to do an update post because so far our 2017 has been full of changes!

In January,  I was feeling a bit overwhelmed, defeated and just kinda lost.
I would look around at how I was living my life and think...
is this it?
Is this how I'm going to spend my short life here on Earth?
I KNOW that the good Lord doesn't want me to just be going from event, to job, to game, to home, to this and that in just a big blur.  There's got to be more ...and by more I really mean LESS!
I needed less in my life.  My life was too full of events and commitments and so on.
I wanted to be able to enjoy my life.
...and in January I was not enjoying my daily life AT ALL!

I knew that it was time to make some changes.

I decided that I wanted my life to become intentional.  
I wanted to simplify.
I wanted to return to the times where I didn't let stress and busyness rule my world.

I am more than those things.  They will not define me anymore.

I am also more than my work and my degrees.

Jesus was about people and loving others.

I want to become better at that.  
You, just like me, have your own story and your own reasons why you are busy, sad, mad, stressed.... I want to not just hear your stories, but to really listen.
I may not get to say hello to everyone in this small little town, but the ones that I do come in contact with... 
I want them to know that I care.

I want my hello to be heartfelt.

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The first area of my life I started examining was my full-time job.
It's a little crazy.
For confidentiality purposes... I won't go too much into this.
On my daily drives... I would just think... what am I doing?
I have X amount of things to do in X amount of time and I am not doing 
ANY of them well.
I was my biggest critic.
I wanted to make everyone happy, but at times it seemed IMPOSSIBLE.

For now, I'm leaving this area in God's hands and I will praise in Him the waiting.

The in-between,
the meantime, 
the waiting, 
the becoming can be frustrating.  
But God's timetable
 is always better than ours.
via Pinterest

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The second area I examined was our home life.

I am a chronic declutterer...and seem to never get ahead.

The kids' rooms were the bane of my existence....just so much stuff and they weren't playing with any of it.
One weekend while the big kids were staying at their dad's.... 
I went to work.

I removed EVERYTHING from their bedrooms except the few toys that I KNOW that they actually played with.
This is what was left:
Olivia == Art Stuff, Dolls, Books
Jonah == Legos, Playstation, Books

Olivia announced earlier this year that she was done with Barbies.. . so sad .
So I moved those out, but I left her baby dolls.
She did tell me last night that she no longer wants to play 
with them either. {Sigh}
Goodness...I can't believe Junior High is next year!

I packed up so many trash bags of stuff...if my mom saw them 
she might have passed out.
I was worried when they came home that Sunday they 
would freak out. 
So I waited....they went upstairs and I heard no complaints! 
Instead they stayed upstairs in their rooms playing for the next couple of hours.

I was in shock and I was elated!

I hope to continue this with the other rooms in our home.




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The third area I looked at was my health.
I have gained quite a bit of weight over the past 5 years.

I am the Queen of Excuses.
and mostly the Queen of Sleep if I can get it.

A friend of mine started using and selling a weight loss product and she was having great results so I thought why not?

It's more than just the supplements though... it's been a lifestyle change, especially
 in how we eat.
Fortunately, Jason decided to do this with me.  It has been so easy and great to do this with him because we have held each other accountable and I've finally 
shed some pounds.

As of yesterday, he is at his goal weight! I'm so proud of him!
He never complained.  Not once.

I have lost 9 pounds and 12.5 inches.

I'm happy that I'm losing it slowly....and continuously losing.

I don't want to go back to how I was eating...but Jason and I do have some plans to make some other healthy changes in 
our near future.



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The next area I began looking at...was just how we were living our lives in general.
I love the idea of living a simple life and of enjoying the treasures that God put on this Earth for us.  I also like the thought of taking care of this world and living 
in a way that is non-toxic.
Over the course of the past year... I have been slowly trying to make some positive changes in our home.  

I've had a strong desire to be outside in nature, to garden & plant flowers and to also be outside to enjoy the stars at night.

I want our lives to slow down a bit.

I've began composting.
I recently bought a new 65 gallon compost tumbler.
I can't wait to be able to use it.
I've been recycling for the past two years and I began to notice that most of our trash was stuff that could be used for compost....so I thought why not do that and we would have less waste in our home plus it would be a bonus for our yard.

In the past, I've also made my own moisturizers, face wipes, sugar scrubs and lip balms using essential oils.
I hope to experiment a little more with these in the future.

For our wedding 5 years ago, a sweet friend gifted us a starter kit from Young Living.
I had no idea how my life was going to change just from a
 tiny drop of oil.

I've thought about signing up as a wholesale member/distributor several times and I was wanting a new starter kit 
last month so I signed up.
I'm so glad I did.  

Once you sign up you are automatically on a Team... but you NEVER have to sell or do the business.  You don't even have to make a monthly order unless you want to.

In this short amount of time....for sure this has been my 
biggest blessing in 2017.
I love the Team I've signed up with.
They create an environment that is so positive and loving.
They love Jesus and love people and this is exactly what 
I needed in my life right now.

I have learned so much more about essential oils and I am grateful for how they are supporting my families' needs.

The other day my husband asked me what the balls were on our dryer and I told him that they are wool balls that you put essential oils in and they take the place of dryer sheets.
He gave me a big hug and said... "You're so green." That is a compliment to me... because being green to me means 
living simply and taking care of my family.




If you have made it all the way to the bottom of this post, I seriously would like to hug you!
Thank you for your presence.

One thing that I do want to share with you is my 
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Saturday, October 25, 2014

The One with the Book Review & a Giveaway {chaos to clutter-free}


A few weeks ago I was asked to review a new ebook coming out, Chaos to Clutter-free: 16 Realistic Steps to an Organized Home by Davonne Parks.

I was so excited to have this opportunity and Davonne has graciously offered to giveaway 5 of her new ebooks to my readers.

As a busy mother and wife I am always on the hunt for new and better ways to keep my house clean & organized!

This book....has not only given me hope, but a plan.  
A plan that comes in 16 simple steps.
The book is complete with encouraging quotes and scriptures at the beginning of each step.

I really loved how Davonne was so personable throughout her book and it made me feel like the two of us were sitting on my couch, having coffee and she was sharing with me
amazing, encouraging tips on how to make my home into the home I've always dreamed of!

Each step contains
 Encouragement - Tips - Tasks - Maintenance.

I am going to give you a few pieces of the book 
that really inspired me....
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  • "If your home feels crowded, you have closets or rooms full of boxes, or you’re embarrassed when company comes over, then chances are that you’re hanging on to your past so much that you’re not able to fully embrace the beauty of today."
  • "Organize your bedroom and home office space. Going through the parents’ areas before the kid areas will set an example and precedent for your kids. Later you can remind them, “Remember when I got rid of things in my room, and how nice it looks now? Now we get to make your room that nice!”
  • "Be content to have a dozen outfits you really love and will be happy to wear often rather than fifty outfits that are outdated or that you don’t feel great in."
  • "Think about playtime vs. clean-up time.  If your children spend 10 minutes playing with something and it makes for an hour’s worth of cleanup, the toy is probably more work than it’s worth. Get rid of it." 
During one step she also mentions having a clutter basket.... a place to dump everything and then she empties it once a week..... genius!


“Clutter is not just the stuff on your floor—it’s anything that stands between you and the life you want to be living.” 
– Peter Walsh

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Want to know how you can clean less and keep 
your house clean longer??? 
READ this book! It's soooo good and worth your time!

I dream of my house being peaceful, decluttered and clean and I know after reading this book...that dream can become a reality!

Ready for a giveaway????

5 of you lucky readers can win your very own copy of this ebook -- Chaos to Clutter-free: 16 Realistic Steps to an Organized Home by Davonne Parks

[Also,,,, please be a good reader and leave Davonne a review on Amazon....Thanks :) ]

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Saturday, October 11, 2014

The One with the 31 Day Purge via A Bowl Full of Lemons {Days 1-10}

Y'all know how much I L O V E A Bowl Full of Lemons....

I'm doing her 31 Day Purge this October and I wanted to share 
the links with you lovelies.


































I will share the other links very soon...

Happy Saturday.

xoxoxoxo.....





Wednesday, October 1, 2014

The One with the Purge

One of my all-time favorite blogs... is starting a new series this month and I am so excited to participate in her challenge....


I mean seriously...when I grow up I want to be her.

She's amazing and her home is soooo lovely.

Go check it out!

Monday, September 8, 2014

The One with the Organized Medicine Cabinet - Link Party

I don't have a before picture to show you....but our medicine cabinet was a hot mess.  I was just throwing stuff up in that cabinet and praying nothing would fall out every time I opened the doors.

I decided it was time to conquer this cabinet....
I bought some plastic containers from the Dollar General or Dollar Gentral if you follow 
Then I grabbed my label maker and headed to the disaster area.


I divided our medicines up into 8 different groups:

Ears, Eyes, Nose & Skin
First Aid
Weekly Meds
Fever/Pain
Allergies
Vitamins
Cold/Flu
Stomach



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Saturday, August 30, 2014

The One with 100 Ways to Simplify Your Life (6-10)

Today I am here to share with you parts 6-10 from the book "100 Ways to Simplify Your Life" by Joyce Meyer.

If you want to read about 1-5 click HERE.

6) Let Go of What Lies Behind

I have mostly good days with this one....but every once in a while...I will get lost in my thoughts about things that happened in the past and start feeling down.  I need to remember that those days are gone and forgotten.  I need to remember to live for today.

Why do we like to hang onto reminders of our past mistakes....it only makes us feel bad.

More than anything else....I want the messes in my life to be used as miracles.

In the book:

"I believe Paul tried fixing earlier mistakes and discovered how complicated and impossible it was to try and do that.  There is only one thing we can do with the past - give it to God!"

"When we let Him take our messes and turn them into miracles, God has the ability to use our mistakes for our great good if we trust Him to do so."

"Isaiah 61:3 says He will give us "beauty instead of ashes," but I find a lot of people want to keep their ashes, the cinders of the past, as reminders of their shortcomings and failures.  Decide to give up your ashes, or that is all you will ever have."  

"It is imperative to get our minds out of the past in order to see God's good plan for today."

7) Learn How to Say No

Oh this one...this one is a little treasure.  When you can learn how to say no and not feel bad about it...you will have 
found a pot of gold!!

Back in the day I would want to make EVERYONE happy and I would feel terrible if I told someone no.  These days I have come to the realization that I just cannot do everything and that is ok.  

So now I can graciously, sincerely tell people no 
without feeling guilty.  

Be honest with people about your no too....don't lie to them and make up some story about why you can't do something.  Just be truthful with them...everyone else is busy and most likely they will understand.  If they don't ....that is not on you.  

In the book:

"It's natural to want to be loved and accepted -- we all want that -- but that tendency makes it very easy to fall into the trap of being a people pleaser.  This greatly complicates life, however...."

"God created each of us in a unique way; we are individuals who have a right to live our own lives.  This does not mean we never adapt and adjust ourselves and our desires in order to help or make others happy, but it does mean we cannot continue to please people at the expense of pleasing God."

"If you truly feel in your heart God wants you to say yes, then say it and stick to it; but if you feel He's directing you to say no, then say no and stick to that as well."

"If our hearts say no while our mouths say yes out of fear of rejection, we cannot expect God to help us.  He is not obligated to finish anything He did not author."

8) Be Yourself

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." 
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

This one I am currently working on.  Instead of fighting it....I've came to the conclusion that I am not the same person I was 3 years ago or 10 years ago....and that's ok.  I am me.  There is no other me. ....and there is no other you.  We need to embrace ourselves and love the person we are today.

In the book:

"After many years of misery and struggle, I finally realized that God would never help me be anyone but me."

"You don't have to compare or compete with anyone or anything else, and that, my friends, is true freedom."

"Learn how you can relax with others and just be yourself.  If they reject you, they reject what God created, not what you have created.  Of course, we all have areas we can improve, but only God can do the changing and He does it His way 
and in His timing."

"If you will decide to accept and like yourself for who you are and who God has made you, you will find more acceptance 
and less rejection."

9) Choose Quality over Quantity

Oh this is a good one....

Less is more!

In the book:

"Having more is not always better -- it is very often worse.  We tend to buy cheaper clothes so we can have more clothes, then we become frustrated because they shrink or fade or don't last like we thought they would.  Having too many clothes can even make getting dressed complicated."

"If we choose to buy quality products such as appliances and furniture, even when it means having fewer things for a period, we actually save time in the maintenance needed.  Poor-quality items break down more often and wear out sooner.  The more we have to deal with in life, the more complicated it becomes."

"Our lives cannot be simplified until we have a smaller amount of things to deal with."


10) Refuse to Start What You Cannot Finish

I have started a lot of different things and have yet to finish them.  I'm trying to force myself to finish them before I start 
any new projects.
Doesn't it feel good to finish something you've been working on for a while?

In the book:
"Multiple unfinished projects clutter our minds and lives.  They continually scream at us to finish them and they condemn and mock us.  The longer it takes to finish the worse we feel about ourselves.  No person can attempt to do everything and do any of it well."

"Most people in our society today are addicted to taking on more than they can handle.......I always have more on my to-do list than I can finish in one day, but I go after it again the next day."

"Simplify your life by beginning only what you know you can finish and finishing what you begin......When you complete something, you no longer need it on your mind .... You are free to dream and free to create because your mind is clutter-free."

I hope all of you have a fabulous weekend.

xoxoxo....